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THE “PERFECT” GUY

Most ladies want a “perfect” guy. A guy whose love for them will forever be constant; a guy that will do anything just to make them happy; a guy that will understand them; a guy that will respect them enough to wait until marriage before having sex with them; a guy that will have eyes for only them; a guy that will be a blessing and not a burden; a guy that will put them first before any other lady in his life; a guy that will jump mountains and cross oceans just to be with them; a guy that will sacrifice himself on an altar of love; a guy that will be a provider, protector and lover.

Every lady wants a perfect guy.

THE “PERFECT” GUY

 

The list is endless but let me stop here.

If you’ve ever found yourself wanting all or most of the above in your boy-friend or spouse to be then this article is for you. First of all, you need to know this- There is no perfect guy. No matter how you scan through the earth and travel from continent to continent in search of him, you will return back to where you started from because he is not in existence. Every guy is built with their own flaws and imperfections. The sooner you realize this, the better for you.

Love is not just about finding the “perfect” guy who doesn’t exist and sticking with him. Love is a decision to care about someone regardless of whether or not he deserves it; whether or not he has anything to offer you; whether or not he is perfect. A relationship is never between two “perfect” individuals; it should be between two imperfect individuals who come together in the name of love to perfect each other or make each other better.

Until you embrace this fact, you will remain in an unending search of finding the “perfect” guy.

N.B: There is nothing wrong in wanting the best in your man but it becomes a problem when this overrides your wisdom in loving and remaining eternally committed to him.

THE “PERFECT” GUY

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THE “PERFECT” GUY

Most ladies want a “perfect” guy. A guy whose love for them will forever be constant; a guy that will do anything just to make them happy; a guy that will understand them; a guy that will respect them enough to wait until marriage before having sex with them; a guy that will have eyes for only them; a guy that will be a blessing and not a burden; a guy that will put them first before any other lady in his life; a guy that will jump mountains and cross oceans just to be with them; a guy that will sacrifice himself on an altar of love; a guy that will be a provider, protector and lover.

Every lady wants a perfect guy.

THE “PERFECT” GUY

 

The list is endless but let me stop here.

If you’ve ever found yourself wanting all or most of the above in your boy-friend or spouse to be then this article is for you. First of all, you need to know this- There is no perfect guy. No matter how you scan through the earth and travel from continent to continent in search of him, you will return back to where you started from because he is not in existence. Every guy is built with their own flaws and imperfections. The sooner you realize this, the better for you.

Love is not just about finding the “perfect” guy who doesn’t exist and sticking with him. Love is a decision to care about someone regardless of whether or not he deserves it; whether or not he has anything to offer you; whether or not he is perfect. A relationship is never between two “perfect” individuals; it should be between two imperfect individuals who come together in the name of love to perfect each other or make each other better.

Until you embrace this fact, you will remain in an unending search of finding the “perfect” guy.

N.B: There is nothing wrong in wanting the best in your man but it becomes a problem when this overrides your wisdom in loving and remaining eternally committed to him.

THE “PERFECT” GUY

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TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SUCCESS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP

 

A lot of times, when things go wrong in our relationship we tend to blame that person, that thing, that video, that text message, that girl, that guy and we forget to check ourselves. We allow ourselves to get distracted by other possible causes of “relationship challenges” without taking time to examine where we went wrong.

Today, I’m going to be sharing with you on taking responsibility for your relationship and I want you to take time to examine your own relationship.

When things go wrong, do you point an accusing finger; do you judge your partner without examining yourself; do you find every reason to exonerate yourself from the blame and push it to the next possible culprit?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions then you’re guilty of not taking responsibility for the success of your relationship and you need to do the right thing. The reason your relationship is not working out is because you and your spouse have refused to take responsibility for the success of that relationship. Stop making excuses and start facing your challenges head-long; stop hating on the supposed “causes” of your misfortune and start taking responsibility. Nobody has the power to ruin your relationship except you and your partner allows them.

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE SUCCESS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP

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Before you get married

Before you get married

• Know your God-given life purpose


• Maximize the blessedness of singleness


• Hang out with friends as often as possible


• Have an accommodation


• Go for marriage counseling


• Don’t have sex


• Have a regular paying job


• Prepare for marriage in prayers and intense self-development


• Tell your spouse everything he/she needs to know


• Don’t live in the same house

Before you get married

BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED

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THE TEST OF LOVE: WOULD YOU STILL LOVE HER IF….

THE TEST OF LOVE

 

Would you still love her if she has a terminal disease?

Would you still love her even if she doesn’t love you?

Would you still love her even if she doesn’t deserve it?

Would you still love her if she hurts you?

Would you still love her if she hurts you again and again without regard for your feelings?

Would you still love her if the world was to end now?

Would you still love her if the world is against her?

Would you still love her if she gives you every reason not to?

If you answered yes to all of these questions, then you sincerely do love her and would do anything to be with her forever. However, if you answered no to any of these questions then you are deceiving yourself when you say “I love you” to her.

THE TEST OF LOVE

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5 WAYS TO KNOW YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP

 

5 WAYS TO KNOW YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP

 

 

You know that you’re in the right relationship when:

You feel peace about the relationship

You madly love each other

You make each other better in every aspect

You and your partner heard from God on the relationship

You bring each other closer to God

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3 qualities that your future wife must possess

Yesterday, I shared with you on “the perfect guy” and if you’re wondering on whether there is a “perfect lady” then I hope this post clears your doubt.

Let me start by notifying you on the fact that there is no perfect lady.

However, if you want to be with a lady and enjoy happily ever after with her, there are certain qualities that she must possess. And I’m going to be sharing some of these qualities with you today:l

3 QUALITIES THAT YOUR FUTURE WIFE MUST POSSESS – The Perfect Wife

SHE MUST BE HARD-WORKING:

Proverbs 31: 13- She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

If you’re going to date and even go as far as marrying her, please ensure that she is very hard-working. If your future wife is lazy and hates anything that involves work then you should be very concerned. After all, she’ll be taking care of your kids, ensuring that the house is in place, making sure that family members are well taken care of and in some cases supporting you financially. When considering any woman to be your “lady”, be sure to ask her questions that tell you about how hardworking she is- What is her attitude to work? Is she domesticated? Can she handle the pressures that arise from having kids, giving her husband due attention and still maintaining sanity in the home?

SHE MUST BE GOD-FEARING:

Proverbs 31:30- Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.

Your future wife has to fear God otherwise she will never be able to build a home that is founded on the solid rock of Christ with you. She must know how to go on her knees in the place of prayer committing herself, her spouse, kids, family and work into the hands of God. Beyond this, it’s easier to make heaven when you have a God-fearing woman as the co-captain of your ship. She will do everything to please God and will always keep you in check.

SHE MUST BE WISE:

Proverbs 31:26- She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

Let me define wisdom in this scenario. Wisdom is knowing the right thing to do and doing it; knowing the right thing to say and saying it; it is the discretionary use of knowledge for the greatest good. Your future wife must be display wisdom in her dealings and all that pertains to her. When she speaks, the right words should always proceed forth out of her mouth. With a wise woman beside you, you’re assured that your future children will be brought up under the most appropriate environment possible.  Also, you know that when they become “confused” teenagers, you have someone who can speak common sense into them and direct them in the right path.

 

3 QUALITIES THAT YOUR FUTURE WIFE MUST POSSESS

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THE “PERFECT” GUY

Most ladies want a “perfect” guy. A guy whose love for them will forever be constant; a guy that will do anything just to make them happy; a guy that will understand them; a guy that will respect them enough to wait until marriage before having sex with them; a guy that will have eyes for only them; a guy that will be a blessing and not a burden; a guy that will put them first before any other lady in his life; a guy that will jump mountains and cross oceans just to be with them; a guy that will sacrifice himself on an altar of love; a guy that will be a provider, protector and lover.

Every lady wants a perfect guy.

THE “PERFECT” GUY

 

The list is endless but let me stop here.

If you’ve ever found yourself wanting all or most of the above in your boy-friend or spouse to be then this article is for you. First of all, you need to know this- There is no perfect guy. No matter how you scan through the earth and travel from continent to continent in search of him, you will return back to where you started from because he is not in existence. Every guy is built with their own flaws and imperfections. The sooner you realize this, the better for you.

Love is not just about finding the “perfect” guy who doesn’t exist and sticking with him. Love is a decision to care about someone regardless of whether or not he deserves it; whether or not he has anything to offer you; whether or not he is perfect. A relationship is never between two “perfect” individuals; it should be between two imperfect individuals who come together in the name of love to perfect each other or make each other better.

Until you embrace this fact, you will remain in an unending search of finding the “perfect” guy.

N.B: There is nothing wrong in wanting the best in your man but it becomes a problem when this overrides your wisdom in loving and remaining eternally committed to him.

THE “PERFECT” GUY

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WHY YOU SHOULD GET BACK WITH HIM/HER

WHY YOU SHOULD GET BACK WITH HIM/HER

A lot of times relationships face difficult times that cause us to consider a break or in most cases a break-up. You feel hurt, sad and frustrated especially when you never wanted the relationship to end. Let me start by stating that the fact that a relationship ends or experiences a break-up doesn’t mean that it was never meant to be. Sometimes, it takes a relationship break to verify your feelings for your partner and decide on whether or not you want to be with them forever. Today, I’m going to be showing you reasons why you should consider mending a broken relationship that you still strongly believe in its future.

YOU LOVE HIM/HER: The fact that you’re in love with your ex and no other person, is enough reason why you should look at how to make things work again. It is callous to be with someone else when your heart is still in the possession of another; it is not fair to be with someone who you don’t genuinely love no matter how they feel for you. You should amend your broken relationship because you’re still completely, madly in love with your ex and he/she feels the same way too.

YOU LIFE FEELS MISERABLE WITHOUT HIM/HER: After the relationship ended, you felt like a part of your life was taken away; you felt incomplete and extremely unhappy; you felt like death was a better option; you felt absolutely miserable. These are all pointers to the fact that you should consider ending the break and re-working the engine of that relationship. If you once dated someone whose absence makes you feel miserable then you should consider getting back together with them.

YOU ARE SURE GOD SPOKE TO YOU ABOUT THAT RELATIONSHIP: Any relationship that you feel God approves and has given you instructions on shouldn’t be taken for granted. And even if for some reasons, you decide to take a break and figure things out. You must never eliminate the option of getting back together with that person. No matter how much you were hurt, it’s never enough reason to completely eliminate the chances of re-uniting with your lost but found beloved. If you’re very sure that God spoke to you about that relationship then by all means, fight for it and get back with him/ her.

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ABSTAIN FROM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

ABSTAIN FROM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

These days, it’s very common to find several individuals who venture into sex before marriage. A lot of people engage in it for several reasons, some of which include: a desire to feel among, intense peer pressure, inadequate knowledge on the consequences of this act, revenge for hurt, and the list goes on.

Today, I’m going to be taking you through reasons why you shouldn’t play with the webs of sex outside marriage. No matter the lies a guy/ lady tells you like: “Sex guarantees the success of our relationship”, “How do we know our sexual compatibility before marriage”, “If you love me, you will allow me to have sex with you”, “We’re just doing it for pleasure”. All of these are lies from the pit of hell and in case you’ve allowed yourself to be carried away; it’s very important that you re-trace your steps and do the right thing.

You should abstain from sex before marriage because:

It defines your worth as a lady in marriage: An ancient tale in Yoruba land talks about how a woman is rewarded for keeping her virginity until marriage. When a man marries a woman and discovers that she’s a virgin, his family sends a full gallon of palm oil to her family and both families rejoice over a well brought up child but when reverse is the case; his family sends a half gallon of palm oil to her family and nobody rejoices over her; a shame that follows her for the rest of her life. This tells a lot about the worth that is placed on a woman that keeps herself until marriage. In addition to this, your husband tends to value and respect you more when he knows that you kept yourself for him.

God honors and respects your marriage: God is always impressed by a marriage between two individuals who abstained from sex until they were joined together as one. This is because they have succeeded in following a principle that has been instructed by Him in the Bible. Don’t defile your marital bed and expose your marriage to arrows of evil by engaging in fornication or adultery. And if you have already made the mistake, it is never too late to repent and do the right thing.

Your chances of getting a sexually transmitted disease is reduced: Asides the reasons listed above, you should abstain from sex before marriage because your chances of getting a sexually transmitted disease is higher when you engage in pre-marital sex or sex that is not within the confinements of marriage. Don’t mortgage your priceless destiny by the five (5) minutes pleasure of sex.

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HOW TO PLEASE A MAN

 

HOW TO PLEASE A MAN

As a lady, have you ever asked yourself this question “How do I please my man?” Well if you have, then this post is for you.

The male specie can be very complicated and a lot of times, you need understanding to be able to enjoy a successful relationship with that guy of your dreams. Today, I’m going to be sharing a few tips on how to please a man:

Don’t cheat on him: Every man cherishes and wants to keep a lady whose loyalty and commitment towards them is intact. Don’t mar his trust for you by cheating on him in the slightest way possible. The day he finds out would mark the commencement of relationship crisis for you and if you think you can cover your track while you cheat on him, you might want to think again. Men are smarter than you think and more often than not, a guy always knows when you’re cheating on him. Don’t ruin his ego; don’t create a shady future for your relationship; don’t cheat on him.

Don’t compare him to others:  If there’s one thing that a lot of men can’t stand, it’s “being compared to other men”. No matter how frustrated you are as a lady, don’t make the mistake of comparing your man to other men. It will only make him sad and cause a drift between the two of you. Comparing him to others is like rubbing his flaws in his face and mocking any effort he’s making. If you want to please him, constantly appreciate him and never compare him to others.

Support him: Every man appreciates a woman who is not just a burden but a blessing in many ways. If you want to please him, don’t turn him into your “provider” or “father” when he’s not even married to you. It’s okay if he decides to shower you with gifts but it’s not okay if you make incessant demands for “all your needs” from him without being a source of help and support to him too. You must learn to love him genuinely, support him wholeheartedly, and buy into his vision, dreams and goals if you want to please him.

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YOUR ROLE IN HER LIFE AS A MAN

A few days ago, I shared with you “Your Role In His Life As A Woman”, today; we’re going to look at the reversed scenario- “Your Role In Her Life As A Man”.

YOUR ROLE IN HER LIFE AS A MAN

 

As the man in her life, there are certain roles and responsibilities that are automatically placed upon you and if for any reason you read through this article and don’t feel obliged to embrace these roles then by all means, you should remain single. This is not to judge anyone but to help you understand that if you’re going to venture into a relationship or marriage then you must learn to play out your role in her life as a man.

In very few words, what is your role in her life as a man?

TO PROVIDE FOR HER: One of the major prerequisites for a relationship to work is financial maturity. You don’t have to become a “Bill Gates” or “Aliko Dangote” but you must have a steady source of income that enables you to fend for yourself and the woman in your life. Asking a girl out without having the necessary means required to take care of her is “punishing” the woman you love if she eventually agrees to date you. You should spend more time building yourself into a man that can comfortable take care of his leading lady and when you finally find her; don’t let her suffer; don’t let her smile in the open and cry in the secret, provide for her!

TO SUPPORT HER: She has goals and dreams that she wants to achieve and truth is, she needs you to support her vision and assist her in fulfilling it. She might not say this out openly but every woman appreciates a man who can support her to the best of his ability. As much as she would so anything just to support you, you must do same for her by listening to her dreams, planning its achievement process and standing by her side through the journey.

TO LOVE AND CHERISH HER: Every woman likes to be pampered with love and affection. They like to know that someone out there would do anything just to see them smile and make them happy. If you are the man in her life then you must strive to make her happy; you must be there for her; you must shower her with all the love and affection within your disposal; you must cherish her like there’s just one of her otherwise you would lose her without knowing.

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WHEN LONG DISTANCE SETS IN

Long distance in a relationship can be frustrating and difficult to deal with. In fact, most relationships don’t survive the trying test of long distance. But then, a few actually do survive and that’s why I’m going to be sharing with you-tips that can make for a successful long distance relationship.

WHEN LONG DISTANCE SETS IN

 

When long distance sets in by reason of circumstances that are seemingly beyond your control, do you fret?

Do you lose faith in a love that you used to strongly believe in?

Do you fight for your relationship with every muscle left?

Long distance can be a blessing or a curse to your relationship depending on your approach and your willingness to make things work. For your relationship to work when long distance sets in, you should do the following:

EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION: Beyond keeping in touch and calling each other from time to time, you must ensure that you effectively communicate. You convey your feelings, emotions and worries per time without hiding anything from your partner. Never let a day pass without an exchange of information between the two of you.

LET YOUR LOVE SPEAK: No matter the distance between the two of you, you must ensure that your love for each other speaks. Do things that will show your beloved that even if he/she is far away; your heart is still with them.  Let your love speak by being there for him/her in any way possible, supporting him/her from where you are; encouraging them always; defending your love for him/her when temptations arise; sticking to love him/her through thick and thin. Even if distance attempts to act as a barrier in your relationship, you must let your love speak words and actions that will keep your relationship intact.

GUARD YOUR RELATIONSHIP IN PRAYERS: Long distance is not easy and that’s the plain truth. The heart yearns to be with its beloved as often as possible and long distance prevents this but one tool that can come in handy when long distance sets in is “prayer”. You must be willing to invest good time in praying for yourself, your beloved and the relationship. In addition to this, you must pray together via any means possible because a couple that prays together stays together. Regardless of how far you are from each other, prayer keeps you together as one.

WHEN LONG DISTANCE SETS IN

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COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP | MusteredLady.com

COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP

Today, I’m going to be sharing with you on common mistakes that people make in relationships. A lot of people indulge in some on the issues we’re going to look at without even knowing the implications or being involved in such. These mistakes are more often than not, the reason why a lot of relationships don’t last or make it to the finishing line.

COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP

SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE: Sadly but so, sex before marriage has become a norm in so many relationships and what makes the situation more disheartening is the fact that a lot of people think it’s okay to engage in pre-marital sex. What they don’t know is that pre-marital sex creates a bond that should only exist between husband and wife. Beyond this, the sacredness of “Sex” when indulged in before marriage is tarnished and the relationship is open to physical and spiritual attacks. Let’s not even talk much of the high risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Sex before marriage is one common mistake that people make in a relationship.

CHEATING: It’s no longer news that the rate of cheating has skyrocketed over time and many are even beginning to think that there is absolutely nothing wrong with cheating. However, these are simply lies that people tell themselves. There is everything wrong with cheating and this is a common mistake that a lot of people make. What some people don’t know is that when you cheat on your partner in a relationship, that relationship will never last. Learn to stay faithful and if it’s still a challenge for you then you should seek help and work toward learning the habit of “commitment” in a relationship.

MOVING IN TOGETHER: Another mistake that is very common to relationships is the act of “living together” before you’re pronounced as husband and wife. This creates over-familiarity between unmarried couples, gives you absolutely nothing to look forward in marriage and creates room for doing the wrong thing. Until you are declared married before God, your family and friends, you shouldn’t even consider living in the same house. It’s very deadly and in most cases rips a relationship apart.

COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP

COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP

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THE POWER OF COMMITMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP – So then, what is the power of commitment?

Over time, a lot of people in relationships have been accused and found guilty of cheating. Cheating has become like a canker-worm that is eating fast into the fabric of so many relationships. What makes it more amusing is the fact that some people don’t actually see any wrong in it. A lot of people cheat because they lack adequate knowledge and today I am going to be sharing with you nuggets that will empower you to stay faithful and committed in a God-ordained relationship.

THE POWER OF COMMITMENT IN A RELATIONSHIP

 

Commitment in any relationship can do even more than you know to the relationship and the individuals in that relationship. So then, what is the power of commitment?

HELPS YOU TO STAY FOCUSED IN LIFE: When you’re committed to a relationship, you’re not interested in cheating or bothered about the repercussions of cheating. You are not distracted by things or persons who can lead to the downfall of a relationship you’ve invested so much in. More importantly, commitment has a way of infusing you with a high drive of focus that enables you to be in the right frame of mind that will foster achievement of one’s goals and dreams.

NO UNPLEASANT MEMORIES: If you’ve cheated in the past on someone you love, the memories will forever haunt you especially if they were highly committed to you. Being involved in a relationship that has too many secrets born out of non-commitment will give rise to unpleasant memories that can be very harmful to that relationship.

GOD HONOURS YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP: Let me not even begin with the part where non-commitment is a sin against your partner and ultimately against God. When you decide to commit yourself to your beloved, you are not only doing the right thing; you’re also pleasing God. And when you please God, he honors you and all that pertains to you including your relationship.

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WHEN MARRIAGE FAILS - Mustered Lady Relationship | MusteredLady.com

When Marriage Fails – A lot of times, I meet and interact with couples who seem very unhappy about their marriage and have reasons why they are tired of marriage. They want to walk out of the marriage but can’t either because of their children or the values they believe and uphold.

For them, they feel that their marriage has failed. They’ve done everything within their power to save their marriage but all symptoms reveal that their marriage is heading for the rocks.

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Today, I’m going to be sharing with you “Tips that will revive your marriage even when it feels like it is failing”

FIND OUT WHY: Behind every failed marriage is a very cogent reason. When marriage fails, you must take a step to making it work by identifying what the problem is. Take a step back and review your marriage then determine what went wrong; what you or your spouse didn’t do right; why your marriage-ship is sinking. This is simply because before you can provide solution to any issue, you must carefully identify the issue otherwise you will beat around the bush

DON’T GIVE UP ON YOUR MARRIAGE: When marriage fails, don’t write it off; don’t shake your head and move on; don’t make decisions that you will live to regret; don’t give up on your marriage. Remind yourself of why you married that gentle-man, that intelligent lady that once made your heart skip a beat every-time you set your eyes on them. With determination, give your best to making your marriage work; make sacrifices where necessary as long as you’re not going against the will of God. What matters is that you have a strong resolution to make your marriage work and with that resolution, you will love your spouse unconditionally and work with him/her to resolving any marital crisis.

SEEK GOD: Marriage is an institution that is ordained by God. When it feels like your marriage is failing, go back to the author of beautiful marriages and talk to him. Don’t start running from one friend, person to another seeking advice that might not be beneficial. After all, people can only advice from their perspective; they are not wearing your shoes and so they really don’t know how much it hurts. The person you need to run to is the One that makes all things beautiful in His time. Ask God to revive and restore your marriage. Seek His face concerning the problems in your marriage and receive the wisdom to do things right.

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Tips That Can Transform Your Relationship

Today, I’m just going to share with you relationship tips that can transform a cracking relationship:

Remind yourself of why you’re with your partner: When you relationship feels like it’s going sour; it makes sense to remind yourself of why you dated that individual in the first place. It has a way of bringing pleasant thoughts and memories that help to resuscitate your relationship.

Tips That Can Transform Your Relationship

 

 

Never give up on a love you truly believe in: If you’re very sure that you love someone then by all means, you should put your best into that relationship. Even when the relationship has hit its lowest point, it’s very important that you don’t give up. Whoever said love was easy? Love takes a lot of hard work, commitment, dedication understanding and patience. Never give up on true love.

Learn to forgive: Even when the one you love, hurts you beyond your imagination, you should embrace the habit of forgiveness. In fact, practice forgiveness in advance such that even before they offend you, you have already forgiven them. If you truly love someone, forgiving them will never be a problem.

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STAY VOID OF BEING OFFENDED – How do you cast a glance away from hurtful words and statements?

How do you apologize even when you’re not the offender? How do you stay void of offences?

One of the quickest ways to losing your focus for the day is by getting entangled in offences. The truth is this “as long as you breath, people will definitely offend you”.

Today, I’m going to be talking to you on staying void of being offended.

STAY VOID OF BEING OFFENDED

 

 

Of course, it’s impossible to stay void of offences but it’s not impossible to stay void of being offended.

When people do things that hurt you, it is not the time for you to reminisce on how wicked they are but a time for you to find a place in your heart to forgive them and take them to God in prayers specifically requesting for a positive change of heart on their behalf. In fact, when you pray for them, you let go and let God. You give yourself breathing space and find it easier not to be offended with them.

Jesus said that when people strike us on the right we should turn to the left. How often do you practice this? When people offend you, do you allow yourself to get worked up and then plan a smooth revenge. Offences will always arise but you can decide to be offended or not; it’s a decision that completely boils down to you.

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YOUR ROLE IN HIS LIFE AS A WOMAN - Mustered Lady Relationship | MusteredLady.com

Every man wants to settle down with a lady that completes and complements them. They want a lady that won’t just take from them but also add value to them. They want a virtuous woman who will make their lives beautiful and make them happy.

YOUR ROLE IN HIS LIFE AS A WOMAN

 

 

Unfortunately, a lot of ladies don’t know this. Many are blinded by the ultimate desire for a man that will buy them expensive accessories and fly them across the seven seas; they want men who would be their financial guarantor; they want men who would give Lamborghinis as birthday gifts and houses for wedding anniversaries. Even though they find this kind of men, they never find happiness, true love and comfort of the mind. Beyond this, they can play a fulfilling role in his life either as a girl-friend, a wife or a mother.

Today, I want to share with you; your role in his life as a woman.

TO BE A HELP-MEET: Have you ever heard of the story of Adam and Eve? It tells a fantastic tale of how God brought Eve into the life of Adam because He felt that Adam needed a “help-meet”. A help-meet can simply be described as a helper.  In other words, a “help-meet” is someone that suits, adapts to and complements another person. God has put you in his life so that you can help him to be better; help him to succeed; help him to achieve goals and his purpose in life. If you’re not doing this then you are failing in your role in his life as a woman.

TO SUPPORT HIM: You’re not in his life to be a burden to him and his career; you’re there to support him with what God has blessed you with. Don’t nag when things are not going as planned; don’t complain when he can’t provide you with everything you desire and deserve; don’t leave him just because everyone is walking out. Stay with him and support him. As the lady in his life, your role is to support and complement him; to keep him from falling to the ground; to be highly involved in ensuring that he succeeds by all means.

TO LOVE HIM: The word love has beeen abused over and over again because a lot of people tend to use it even when they don’t mean it. If you want to know the true definition of love as well as whether or not your “love” complies with this definition, simply read and understand 1 Cor 13: 1-13. To love someone is to have a deep and intense feeling of affection and care towards them regardless of circumstances. As his lady, you are expected to love him. Even when he doesn’t deserve it, you are to love him; even when you don’t feel like it, you are to care for him; even when he hurts you; you are to repay him with kindness.

If you helping, supporting and loving him then you’re not playing your role in his life as you ought to.

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BEFORE YOU START DATING

These days, I hear that even children as young as 9 years old date each other. It’s like entering a relationship has become a yardstick for growing up. This shouldn’t be so and that’s probably one of the many reasons why unwanted pregnancies, sexually transmitted diseases and so many other vices are very rampant in the society.

Relationships are not supposed to be seen as ordinary circles that you can walk in and out of whenever you feel like. They are a definite path that you should choose to walk on only when you’re ready.

BEFORE YOU START DATING

 

 

Today, I’m going to sharing with you things that I believe should be in place before you consider walking in a relationship.

SPIRITUAL MATURITY: This simply refers to a defined level of growth in your walk with God; in which you can talk to God and hear from Him conveniently. Being spiritually mature simply means that: you are more concerned about the things of God than the things of the world; you are more spiritually-minded than carnally minded; you are more concerned about making heaven than anything in this world. If you haven’t attained this level spiritually, then my friend; you are not even close to being ready for a serious-minded relationship that will culminate into eternal happiness.

HAVE A VISION, GOAL FOR YOUR LIFE: In life, if you don’t know where you’re going, you’ll be tossed anywhere by situations, events and even people. You need to know your vision and it must align with your God-given purpose. If you can’t identify you vision, goal in life as a single lad/lady, it will be more difficult finding that out when you’re “double”. There’s really no rush or an award for “Earliest couple” in town. What matters is that you have a vision for your life and then you can proceed to find that person who will love and support you in achieving this vision.

BE FINANCIALLY AND EMOTIONALLY PREPARED: Like I always tell you, relationships are an investment of time, money and emotions which you can’t afford to waste anyhow. Before you start dating, you must be financially and emotionally prepared. You must be capable of meeting certain financial obligations that might arise and also, your heart must be strong enough to withstand any emotional attacks. You know you are financially prepared when you have a steady source of income and you know you’re emotionally prepared when you can control your emotions.

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