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1 Peter 3:1-7

¹ Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, ² when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. ³ Do not let your adornment be merely outward–arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel– ⁴ rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. ⁵ For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, ⁶ as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror. ⁷ Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.    




Today I asked myself- “Who is a good wife?” and the scripture above provided a perfect response.

A good wife respects and submits to her husband. She understands that he is the head of the home and acknowledges this every single time. No matter what, she doesn’t look down on her husband and gives him the homage that is fit for a King.

A good wife understands the importance of looking good and ensuring that she appears well before her husband but also knows that beyond having a beautiful outlook is a fine heart. A heart that honours her husband and the God that gave him to her. A heart with beauty that is incorruptible. A heart backed by a gentle, quiet spirit that God holds in high esteem.

These are some very important qualities that every good wife to be must imbibe.

Beyond this, husbands are expected to love and honour their wife and treat them the way Christ treats the church. A good husband knows the importance on working to provide and protect his wife and kids. He understands that he must unite with his wife to access the grace that makes for a successful marriage.

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How To Walk Out Of A Relationship - Mustered Lady Relationship | MusteredLady.com

Sequel to my post on “When your relationship is not working”, I have written this post to assist you in walking out of a relationship that is destroying you.

Be sure of your decision: A mole hill is very different from a mountain and sometimes we tend to read unnecessary meaning into a tiny challenge that’s plaguing our relationship. You need to be sure that your relationship is broken beyond repairs before you quit. You need to ascertain the fact that if you leave, nothing will ever give you a reason to come back. You need to be convicted and most importantly, very sure of your decision. This you do by reviewing circumstances and issues then seriously talking to God while allowing Him to direct you.

Inform your partner: There’s nothing worse that breaking up with someone without an official conversation in person. Don’t just start acting like he/she doesn’t exist or make a decision to stop answering their calls/text…that’s childish, immature and doesn’t paint a good picture of you. Politely and carefully explain the situation to your partner. You can listen to whatever explanation they have to give but at this point, you must ensure that nothing they say or do will change your mind. Hence the importance of point 1. You can meet them in the open should in case they react violently or become abusive.

Give yourself and your ex enough time, space so that the wounds can heal: The mistake a lot of people make is trying to be friends with someone they just broke up with. Ideally, this should not be the case because it’s like adding salt to injury…it only worsens the situation and makes it difficult for both parties to move on successfully. In light of this, don’t try to start instant friendship but give yourself time to heal. Spend this time praying, developing yourself and reconnecting with friends.

 

 

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I have come to learn the very hard way that the heart of men can be deceitful and what you thought was good for your heart can actually give you a heart attack.

Today, I want to share with you on “Not All That Glitters Is Gold” and I’ll be narrowing my focus to relationships whilst I discuss the tendency of women to fall for men that are wolves in sheep clothing.

It’s very true that good men are hard to find but even more painful is the fact that “sincere” men are harder to find. A man can be good to you but that doesn’t make him sincere.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you met this guy who was everything you wanted in a guy- kind, loving, peaceful, admirable, etc Then you went ahead to date him and after a couple of weeks, months or even years, you realize just how much he deceived you. You even feel used and frustrated.

In anger, you voice out “Not all that glitters is gold”. You couldn’t be more correct. These days, it’s getting more and more difficult to identify those guys that can be real with you. Sincere guys who can tell you confidently where they’re coming from and where they’re going to.

My word to you is this- “Be Sensitive to situations and who people really are”. Don’t judge a guy based on his looks, words or even actions but based on the content of his character and his relationship with God.

ACTION POINT: Before you date him, find out if he is sincerely committed to God; that’s the only way you can know if he’ll be truly committed to you.

 

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From the very beginning He loved us. Like no other, he loved us.

Even when we don’t deserve it, He still loves us.

That’s the kind of love you should run after, the kind of love you should fight for an do you best to keep.

The kind of love that responds even when I’m still.

The kind of love that doesn’t give up on me.

The kind of love that gives me even when I have nothing.

The kind of love that doesn’t stop even when I stop.

That’s the kind of love that God has for us; the kind of love that we should surround ourselves with before thinking of loving anyone.

A love so rare, a love so divine, a love so far-reaching, a love so eternal.

A love like no other.

ACTION POINT: The first person you should fall in love with before loving any other man is God.

 

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Waiting

Waiting is never easy.

Waiting for true love.

Waiting for that special person who God has crafted to complement you; that you may assist each other in fulfilling destiny.

Waiting for God’s leading and direction,

But while you’re waiting, keep building yourself into the kind of spouse you want to attract.

Be optimistic about the glorious future that God has planned for you.

By all means, don’t settle for less than God’s best for you.

Hold on to God’s word in prayer and supplication.

Do not wish for another person’s lot but be grateful for how far God has brought you.

Do not regret the past but be thankful for the lessons and the blessings.

Waiting is never easy but it is always worth it.

Love,

From a lady in waiting.

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Let her go

Today, I want to share with you; the importance of letting go in a relationship. Sometimes, the obstacle between where we are and where we ought to be is our inability to let go of certain habits or even that “special” person. Today, I’m going to be narrowing my focus to “When to let her go”

Are you in a relationship where everything just doesn’t feel right? The peace that you once used to feel is no longer obtainable and your relationship is no longer on your priority list.

Are you in a relationship where spirituality is no longer held as relevant? You guys hardly pray or even talk to God about your relationship. You can’t even remember the last time you studied God’s word together.

Are you in a relationship where your values, beliefs are no longer aligning? You see everything from a very different perspective and argue about the slightest things.

Are you continuously unhappy about your relationship?

Do you lack the required excitement when you have a date with your “beloved”?

Do you feel like your relationship is drawing you further away from God?

Do you feel like God is telling you to let go and let God?

If you answered yes to any of the above then it just might be time to let go of that relationship.

Prayerfully commit it to God while you allow him to direct you on the next step to take.

 

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5 Things You Should Know About Marriage | MusteredLady.com

This days, we hear all kinds of things including girls who would do anything to settle down.

Some actually force the next available guy into marriage while others attempt to snatch a married man from his wife. How sad!

Today, I want to share with you; five (5) things you should know about marriage:

Marriage is not an achievement- it never was and never will be;

Marriage is an institution designed by God and shouldn’t be taken for granted or treated as an ordinary issue;

Marriage requires finding the right person and deciding to spend the rest of your life with her or him;

Marriage is not easy but with the right person it’s worth it;

Marriage is not a game that you start and stop when you don’t feel like. Marriage should be forever and that’s why you need to take your time to hear from God before venturing into it.

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Are You Faced With A Cheating Partner? | MusteredLady.com

A cheating partner

What do you do when you’re in a relationship where your partner has cheated on you?

Do you run or face the mountains and work out a successful relationship with hope and love?

Handling cheating in a relationship can be very difficult especially when you feel highly persuaded to remain in the relationship. Just because he/she cheated on you doesn’t mean that you take the next available exit. As much as I stand against cheating in any relationship, I want to tell you about the place of understanding and forgiveness in a relationship that has been ordained by God.

Firstly, you need to let go and let God. To err is human but to forgive is divine. Part of forgiving a cheating partner is casting your mind away from the hurt of knowing they cheated on you and fixing it on God; totally surrendering to God and giving Him room to help you forgive and forget.

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Start creating more beautiful memories. If you don’t let go of the past, you will pass away with the past. This is something you need to realize. Stop brooding over the past and start reminding your partner of why he/she chose you in the first place. Work at creating beautiful memories that will erase the past.

Never use it against your partner. People are often guilty of constantly reminding a cheating partner about past errors and mistakes. This can be very painful and disheartening especially when your partner is doing everything to make things right. Don’t send them further away from you but draw them closer by choosing to forget that they ever cheated on you.

 

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Your parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious | MusteredLady.com

Your parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious gifts that God has given you.

Your parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious gifts that God has given you.

Our parents deserve our honor and respect for giving us life itself. Beyond this they almost always made countless sacrifices as they cared for and nurtured us through our infancy and childhood, provided us with the necessities of life, and nursed us through physical illnesses and the emotional stresses of growing up. - Ezra Taft Benson

Your parents may not be perfect but they are the most precious

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THE THREE FOLD CORD

The Threefold Cord

“And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not easily broken”- Eccl 4:12

Have you ever heard of the “three fold cord”? It can be defined as three strings intertwined into each other. In this context, the three fold cord refers to you, your spouse and God.

Hmmmm….

More often than not, the reason a lot of marriages or relationships fail is because people fail to involve the one who holds all things together-God. We enter into marriage thinking that we have “love” and every other thing it takes to make a marriage work. We forget that even though “love” is a necessary element, it is not sufficient.

We watch movies that tell us “what to expect when expecting” J or “what to expect in marriage” and we say to ourselves “Getting married and having a happy home should be a piece of cake”. Then we get married and begin to question the use of “discretion” in whom we chose to marry!

The Threefold Cord

Today, I want to tell you about the place of the “three fold cord” in enjoying your marriage or relationship. Any relationship that isn’t intertwined with God can’t go far and even if it does, it won’t overcome the challenges and obstacles to come. Yes! No relationship or marriage is constantly smooth-sailing and when the storms arise, you need a go-to “person” that can direct you on the best step to take. Marriage is an institution ordained by God and that puts Him in a position to know how best to enjoy it; so give me one good reason why you shouldn’t involve Him?

In your relationship, you should pray together; study God’s word together and bring each other closer to God. Your relationship should be between you, your partner and God so that it won’t be easily broken.

 

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Are you enduring love?

Are you enduring love?

So you’ve been dating this guy for a while and you’ve started to notice habits and actions that you can’t condone. In the name of “love”; you allow him to abuse you, offend you incessantly and give you all the reasons to doubt whether he really loves you. He shouts at you for the slightest offense and hits you without regard; he bosses you around without care for your opinion or feelings; he draws you farther away from God and consciously hurts you with words. The list is endless.

My dear, you don’t need a soothsayer to tell you that you’re in the wrong relationship. If the person you’re dating constantly puts up behaviors, actions or responses that don’t align with your values, belief or faith then it’s about time you make a U-turn. Don’t try to change him or become his counselor thinking that one day things will get better. Don’t make him into a project that needs to be fixed; you’re not the Holy Spirit who has capacity to change people. Don’t venture into marriage with someone hoping that he will become the kind of man you want in a husband.

No matter how strongly you feel about him, if his actions don’t reflect the so called “Christ” in him then you should keep a distance and pray for him not build a relationship with a “picture-perfect marriage” as your first goal.

Love should be enjoyed not endured; and if you’re having a hard time enjoying yours; think, pray, then think again.

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Are you enduring love?

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Are You Enduring Love? - Mustered Lady Relationship | MusteredLady.com

Are you enduring love?

Are you enduring love?

So you’ve been dating this guy for a while and you’ve started to notice habits and actions that you can’t condone. In the name of “love”; you allow him to abuse you, offend you incessantly and give you all the reasons to doubt whether he really loves you. He shouts at you for the slightest offense and hits you without regard; he bosses you around without care for your opinion or feelings; he draws you farther away from God and consciously hurts you with words. The list is endless.

My dear, you don’t need a soothsayer to tell you that you’re in the wrong relationship. If the person you’re dating constantly puts up behaviors, actions or responses that don’t align with your values, belief or faith then it’s about time you make a U-turn. Don’t try to change him or become his counselor thinking that one day things will get better. Don’t make him into a project that needs to be fixed; you’re not the Holy Spirit who has capacity to change people. Don’t venture into marriage with someone hoping that he will become the kind of man you want in a husband.

No matter how strongly you feel about him, if his actions don’t reflect the so called “Christ” in him then you should keep a distance and pray for him not build a relationship with a “picture-perfect marriage” as your first goal.

Love should be enjoyed not endured; and if you’re having a hard time enjoying yours; think, pray, then think again.

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Sexual Purity: A Must!!! | MusteredLady.com

Sexual Purity: A Must!!! – Just Say No

Sexual Purity

Dear ladies,

Don’t let any guy deceive you into sex before marriage. Sexual purity is not debatable if you want to make your future home into a haven. Don’t put yourself in a position where saying “no” to sexual sins becomes extremely difficult.

Don’t fall for stupid lines like:

-If you love me, you’ll have sex with me. LOVE IS NOT SEX AND SEX IS NOT LOVE.

-If we don’t do it, I will leave you. LET HIM GO, GOD HAS SOMEONE BETTER FOR YOU.

-How do I know we’re sexually compatible? SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY DOESN’T GUARANTEE MARITAL SUCCESS.

-I need to be sure you’re a fertile woman. GOD IS THE GIVER OF CHILDREN AND IF YOU HOLD ON TO HIM, BARRENNESS WILL BE FAR FROM YOU.

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You are the apple of God’s eye and very precious in His sight; you’re too precious to be used for experiment by a guy that obviously doesn’t care about your salvation. Don’t cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet and turn to attack you.

Any guy who loves you will respect you enough to wait until you’re lawfully married to him. And if you’ve made the mistake already, it’s never too late to repent and do the right thing. God’s grace is sufficient for you and His strength is made perfect in your weakness.

Sexual Purity: A Must!!!