Are you enduring love?
So you’ve been dating this guy for a while and you’ve started to notice habits and actions that you can’t condone. In the name of “love”; you allow him to abuse you, offend you incessantly and give you all the reasons to doubt whether he really loves you. He shouts at you for the slightest offense and hits you without regard; he bosses you around without care for your opinion or feelings; he draws you farther away from God and consciously hurts you with words. The list is endless.
My dear, you don’t need a soothsayer to tell you that you’re in the wrong relationship. If the person you’re dating constantly puts up behaviors, actions or responses that don’t align with your values, belief or faith then it’s about time you make a U-turn. Don’t try to change him or become his counselor thinking that one day things will get better. Don’t make him into a project that needs to be fixed; you’re not the Holy Spirit who has capacity to change people. Don’t venture into marriage with someone hoping that he will become the kind of man you want in a husband.
No matter how strongly you feel about him, if his actions don’t reflect the so called “Christ” in him then you should keep a distance and pray for him not build a relationship with a “picture-perfect marriage” as your first goal.
Love should be enjoyed not endured; and if you’re having a hard time enjoying yours; think, pray, then think again.
Are You Enduring Love? - Mustered Lady Relationship
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