What do you do when you’re in a relationship where your partner has cheated on you?
Do you run or face the mountains and work out a successful relationship with hope and love?
Handling cheating in a relationship can be very difficult especially when you feel highly persuaded to remain in the relationship. Just because he/she cheated on you doesn’t mean that you take the next available exit. As much as I stand against cheating in any relationship, I want to tell you about the place of understanding and forgiveness in a relationship that has been ordained by God.
Firstly, you need to let go and let God. To err is human but to forgive is divine. Part of forgiving a cheating partner is casting your mind away from the hurt of knowing they cheated on you and fixing it on God; totally surrendering to God and giving Him room to help you forgive and forget.
Start creating more beautiful memories. If you don’t let go of the past, you will pass away with the past. This is something you need to realize. Stop brooding over the past and start reminding your partner of why he/she chose you in the first place. Work at creating beautiful memories that will erase the past.
Never use it against your partner. People are often guilty of constantly reminding a cheating partner about past errors and mistakes. This can be very painful and disheartening especially when your partner is doing everything to make things right. Don’t send them further away from you but draw them closer by choosing to forget that they ever cheated on you.
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