THE “PERFECT” GUY
Most ladies want a “perfect” guy. A guy whose love for them will forever be constant; a guy that will do anything just to make them happy; a guy that will understand them; a guy that will respect them enough to wait until marriage before having sex with them; a guy that will have eyes for only them; a guy that will be a blessing and not a burden; a guy that will put them first before any other lady in his life; a guy that will jump mountains and cross oceans just to be with them; a guy that will sacrifice himself on an altar of love; a guy that will be a provider, protector and lover.
Every lady wants a perfect guy.
THE “PERFECT” GUY
The list is endless but let me stop here.
If you’ve ever found yourself wanting all or most of the above in your boy-friend or spouse to be then this article is for you. First of all, you need to know this- There is no perfect guy. No matter how you scan through the earth and travel from continent to continent in search of him, you will return back to where you started from because he is not in existence. Every guy is built with their own flaws and imperfections. The sooner you realize this, the better for you.
Love is not just about finding the “perfect” guy who doesn’t exist and sticking with him. Love is a decision to care about someone regardless of whether or not he deserves it; whether or not he has anything to offer you; whether or not he is perfect. A relationship is never between two “perfect” individuals; it should be between two imperfect individuals who come together in the name of love to perfect each other or make each other better.
Until you embrace this fact, you will remain in an unending search of finding the “perfect” guy.
N.B: There is nothing wrong in wanting the best in your man but it becomes a problem when this overrides your wisdom in loving and remaining eternally committed to him.
THE “PERFECT” GUY
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