ABSTAIN FROM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE
These days, it’s very common to find several individuals who venture into sex before marriage. A lot of people engage in it for several reasons, some of which include: a desire to feel among, intense peer pressure, inadequate knowledge on the consequences of this act, revenge for hurt, and the list goes on.
Today, I’m going to be taking you through reasons why you shouldn’t play with the webs of sex outside marriage. No matter the lies a guy/ lady tells you like: “Sex guarantees the success of our relationship”, “How do we know our sexual compatibility before marriage”, “If you love me, you will allow me to have sex with you”, “We’re just doing it for pleasure”. All of these are lies from the pit of hell and in case you’ve allowed yourself to be carried away; it’s very important that you re-trace your steps and do the right thing.
You should abstain from sex before marriage because:
It defines your worth as a lady in marriage: An ancient tale in Yoruba land talks about how a woman is rewarded for keeping her virginity until marriage. When a man marries a woman and discovers that she’s a virgin, his family sends a full gallon of palm oil to her family and both families rejoice over a well brought up child but when reverse is the case; his family sends a half gallon of palm oil to her family and nobody rejoices over her; a shame that follows her for the rest of her life. This tells a lot about the worth that is placed on a woman that keeps herself until marriage. In addition to this, your husband tends to value and respect you more when he knows that you kept yourself for him.
God honors and respects your marriage: God is always impressed by a marriage between two individuals who abstained from sex until they were joined together as one. This is because they have succeeded in following a principle that has been instructed by Him in the Bible. Don’t defile your marital bed and expose your marriage to arrows of evil by engaging in fornication or adultery. And if you have already made the mistake, it is never too late to repent and do the right thing.
Your chances of getting a sexually transmitted disease is reduced: Asides the reasons listed above, you should abstain from sex before marriage because your chances of getting a sexually transmitted disease is higher when you engage in pre-marital sex or sex that is not within the confinements of marriage. Don’t mortgage your priceless destiny by the five (5) minutes pleasure of sex.
ABSTAIN FROM SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE - Mustered Lady Relationship
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