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Trust in a relationship

TRUST IN A RELATIONSHIP

 

A wise man once said “Love and trust are like a pair of shoes; without one, you can’t go anywhere”. Today, I’m going to talking to you about trust in a relationship.

To love someone and even go as far as giving your heart to them in a relationship is a risk on its own and it only makes sense to give yourself peace by learning to trust them. Trusting people can be very difficult especially when you’ve had reasons to doubt them or if you’ve been hurt in the past. But then, for how long are you going to imprison your mind with hurts from the past or mistakes made by others. It’s about time to liberate your mind and move your relationship forward.

Trust in a relationship

If you’re having trust issues, the following will come in very handy:

Don’t go into a relationship with someone you don’t trust: Dating a person you don’t trust is like punishing yourself. It’s like boarding a ship whose destination you don’t know and so wherever it takes you too might turn out to be way-below your expectations. Don’t do that to yourself and to someone you obviously don’t really care about.

Make a decision to “trust” you partner: Just like love, trust is a decision to believe that the person you’re giving your heart to won’t hurt you. You must make that conscious decision and learn to trust your partner even when the circumstances surrounding an issue are absolutely “crazy” and don’t give room for exercising trust.

Ask God to help you trust: Sometimes, our background, environmental and psychological factors that influence our growing up often make us into individuals that “can’t” trust what anyone says. At this point, we find it difficult to trust anyone let alone give our hearts out for fear of heart-break. However, this is not enough reason not to trust the one you love and it becomes wise to ask God to help you trust your partner.

Trust in a relationship

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How To Handle Heartbreak – The Scenario

Have you ever been at that point where you had so much faith in a relationship only to discover that its end was closer than you expected?

Have you ever put so much in a relationship only to find out that your partner gave up on the relationship without any sensible explanation?

Have you ever been so in love with a girl only to for circumstances to reveal that she was cheating on you?

Have you ever been so into a guy that you though he was the one and then out of the blues, he shatters your heart into crumbles that can’t be traced?

 

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How To Handle Heartbreak – The Antidote

If you’ve ever faced heartbreak or you’re currently going through a heartbreak then this is for you:

Move on: The first step to handling heart-break is to move on. If you don’t let go of the past, you will pass away with the past. Stop beating yourself up just because someone who is not meant for you walked out of your life. Understand that your ex had to go so that the right person could come. Embrace this fact with joy and MOVE-ON. Moving on, simply involves letting go of everything that bonded you to your previous relationship and creating a new slate for you to start afresh as an individual.

Build yourself: The kind of person that you are determines the kind of person that is attracted to you and so it becomes wise to build yourself. Build yourself to become the perfect spouse. Read books that will develop you, groom yourself to become a better person and work on your talents, skills and innate abilities. Draw lessons from your past relationship and use them in building yourself into a better individual.

Have fun: The beauty of singleness lies in the fact that you don’t really have to worry about pleasing anybody but God. Now that you’re seemingly heart-broken is a time for you to take time to explore the things that being in a relationship didn’t offer you. Spend more time with friends and family, take guitar lessons or lessons in areas that interest you and most importantly, have fun. God doesn’t want you to be moody over a failed relationship, He wants you to learn the lessons required, move-on and definitely have fun!

Yours truly,

Tope

 

 

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