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ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM THE “SINGLENESS” SYNDROME?

 

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM THE “SINGLENESS” SYNDROME?

Being single is never the end of the world. I consider it highly dramatic when ladies become unnecessarily anxious just because all their mates are getting married and no sensible guy seems to be coming their way. I call this the “singleness” syndrome.

Some go into months of fasting while others go boy-friend hunting whilst settling for the next available man. In the midst of anxiety, a lot of ladies tend to settle for less than God’s best for their lives.

Does this ring a bell?

Today, I want to tell you about being single and satisfied. The truth is this-“If you’re not single and satisfied, you can never be “double” (in a relationship) and happy. There’s the place of finding who you really are and identifying your God-given purpose as a single individual. Being single, exempts you (for the time-being) from the distractions that emanate from relationships. It gives you more time to focus of developing yourself and taking your walk with God to the next level.

As much as I believe in the institution of marriage or having a healthy relationship, I don’t support the idea of rushing into it as a solution to your “singleness” syndrome. Until you find yourself in God as a single person, you can never do that successfully within the confinements of relationship.

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM THE “SINGLENESS” SYNDROME?

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM THE “SINGLENESS” SYNDROME?

ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM THE “SINGLENESS” SYNDROME?

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Why You Should Not Cheat

 

 

Why You Should Not Cheat

A lot of times, I wonder why anybody in their right mind will cheat on someone they claim to love. If you don’t love someone enough then don’t even make the slightest effort to be with them and even if you make this mistake, end the relationship before it’s too late. This is a much better alternative than cheating on someone. And if you’ve been a life-time cheater, today I’m going to be giving you reasons why you should not cheat.

It ruins your image: “Once a cheater, always a cheater”, that’s a phrase that is commonly used by people from day to day because it is generally believed that a cheater never changes. And even when you decide to be sincere in your relationship, a lot of people still find it very difficult to believe you. As much as I don’t encourage the influence of  “third-party” syndrome in any relationship, it is important to know that people’s words have impact on relationships and their workability.

What goes around comes around: If you don’t want to end up with a husband/wife who is consistently cheating on you then you need to be careful of the seeds you sow today. Don’t hurt another person because of insatiable sexual desires or your desire to prove that you can date several girls/guys at the same time. Always chide yourself with this-“What goes around comes around”

The cost involved is ridiculous: Uhm, so you think you can get away with cheating based on how much you have to spend on keeping a relationship with several guys/ladies. Well, let me start by letting you know that this is a very foolish decision because the amount of money you spend maintaining several girls can be channeled into more important activities. If you sit down and calculate the cost of buying birthday gifts for your numerous boyfriends, going on dates with countless of girls or trying to please the last girl-friend you offended; you’ll figure out just how ridiculous the cost involved is.

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