Why You Shouldn’t Have Sex With Her
I recently wrote a post on ‘Why you shouldn’t have sex with her”. Today I will looking at the same subject as it relates to the guys in the house.
One thing I have come to realize is that the issue of “sex” is a different ball game for guys. More often than not, when a couple engages in sex, it is usually instigated by the guy. In fact, research has shown that it is more difficult for a guy to control his sexual urges when compared to the opposite sex.
I have often heard a lot of guys state that they can’t stay without sex or date a girl who won’t offer them free sex but to me, that’s just another fictitious story.
Believe it or not, as a guy you can keep yourself until marriage. Let nobody deceive you that it is impossible. All it takes is you!
Now, let’s look at why you shouldn’t have sex with her until you are married to her:
YOU’RE NOT READY TO BECOME A DAD: Becoming a father is a lot of responsibility, hardwork and commitment. You don’t need a preacher to tell you that if you have sex with her, she might get pregnant and you will end up as a dad. Even if you decide to use condom or advise her to use birth control, be reminded that these methods are not 100% sure. The only proof that you’re ready to be a dad is that you have put a ring on her finger and married her. If you’re not ready to become a dad then you shouldn’t have sex with her.
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS, DISEASES ARE REAL: Umh, so you think you’re immune from STI’s or STD’s then you might want to think again. Even condoms and any form of protection don’t guarantee you complete protection from sexually transmitted infections, diseases. Just because you love her doesn’t mean that she is certified free from STIs or STDs; just because she is so beautiful doesn’t mean that she is clean; just because she makes you happy doesn’t mean that you should repay her kindness with sex. You shouldn’t have sex with her because you just might get infected.
SHE IS NOT WIFE MATERIAL: “Wife material” simply refers to that lady who happens to be the perfect definition of the kind of wife you want in your life or the kind of mother you want for you future children. If you demand for sex from a lady and she gives it to you FOC (free of charge) then you can be very sure that she will give it FOC to other men…..this also implies that she is not wife material. You shouldn’t have sex with her because she is not wife material. Besides, you are not ready to marry her; and even if you are ready to marry her, you shouldn’t have sex with her because you love her.
Yours truly,
Tope
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