STAYING VOID OF RELATIONSHIP OFFENSES
There is no relationship that is void of offences and so don’t expect your partner to be an angel with no faults or errors whatsoever. The minute you understand this, the easier it is for you to cultivate the habit of “staying void of relationship offenses”. Offenses will always arise whether you want them or not; even if you try to avoid them or act without offense. However, you can decide on whether or not you want to be offended by your partner. As a matter of fact, you can practice “forgiveness in advance” where you decide to forgive your partner even before they hurt you. This way, you don’t place undue expectations on your partner and you find it easier to move past hurts, offences and wrong-doings by your partner.
Staying void of being offended in a relationship is to develop a thick skin that is resistant to any form of offence regardless of how insulting it might feel. It is deciding that no matter what you partner does or stays, you might display “healthy anger” but you won’t allow the sun to go down on your anger. When I talk about “healthy anger”, I’m referring to the kind of anger that doesn’t seek revenge or transfer aggression or appease itself by hurting someone else. It is making up your mind that you won’t respond in a hurtful tone to a hurting partner who used offensive words on you; it is telling yourself that the “love” you have for your partner would supersede any obstacle, challenge or offense that might threaten to tear your relationship apart.
STAYING VOID OF RELATIONSHIP OFFENSES
STAYING VOID OF RELATIONSHIP OFFENSES
STAYING VOID OF RELATIONSHIP OFFENSES - Mustered Lady Relationship
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