How To Walk Out On A Relationship
I remember having to make one of the hardest decisions in my life. I loved this guy so much but deep within, I knew that he wasn’t good for me. His presence in my life had changed so many things about me including my perception of things that were ideally wrong.
I started to engage in immoral acts, lie to my parents and even go “wild”.
I knew he was a wrong influence on my life, I knew he was taking away the “good” inside of me, most importantly; I knew he wasn’t God’s best for me.
It was time to “walk out”.
It was one of the toughest decisions I ever made but every time I think back, I’m grateful I took that bold step despite all odds.
Today, I’m going to be showing you how to walk out from a “non-profitable” relationship.
ACCEPT THAT THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT FOR YOU: It is commonly said that the first step to solving a problem is to know what the problem is. Until you identify the problem, you can’t solve the problem. The same is applicable to the above topic; you have to know and accept that the relationship is not for you and doing this requires a lot of sincerity with yourself. Don’t try to justify your feelings for the guy with unimportant factors like “He cares about you”, “You might never find anybody better than him” and so on. Know that you deserve better and accept that the relationship is definitely not for you.
ASK GOD TO HELP YOU: Relationships are usually deeper than what we see physically and so trying to break off from a relationship that you’ve been attached to can be very difficult. This is where the place of prayers becomes paramount. You need to realize that it takes a supernatural help from God to let go of a “non-profitable” relationship. So many forces (like friends, past experience, thoughts) will work against your “walking out” on the relationship but you have a greater force in God that will assist you in doing what’s right.
POLITELY AND CAREFULLY END THE RELATIONSHIP: There is this famous saying that “When using a door, don’t slam it too hard as you never know if you might need it again”. Just because you’re putting an end to a relationship doesn’t mean that you end things harshly and leave bad thoughts of your person. You must politely and carefully end the relationship.
Now this is the most difficult part of “Walking out” but it’s not the most impossible part. Call him to an open venue (just in case his reaction gets too offensive) where you can still have a private talk. Then politely explain why you need to end things with him. He might insist on “working things out” but don’t let him persuade you into changing your mind. Remain resolute and firm in your decision. He might not take your decision too well but eventually, he will have to accept and live with it.
I love to hear from my readers so please feel free to comment and share your story.
Also, watch out for my upcoming article on “How to know if he’s cheating on you”.
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