HOW TO KNOW IF HE IS CHEATING ON YOU
Over time, I have come to hear a lot of puzzled ladies voice out in confusion “How do I even know he is faithful to me?” Some ladies even go as far as hiring private investigators just to monitor their boy-friends; some obsessively follow him on social media and suspect every girl he tags or complements; others secretly access his phone when he is not looking or check his email when he forgets to log out.
If past experiences and fear has given room for thoughts that manipulate your position on whether the guy you’re dating is still fully committed to you then this article is for you.
Today, I’m going to be showing you stress-less ways by which you can know if he’s cheating on you or not.
STOP STRESSING YOURSELF: If you want to know whether your guy is cheating on you, the first thing you need to do is to stop stressing yourself. Stop wondering where he is per time; stop checking his facebook wall or his twitter followers; stop reading his text messages; stop scanning through his email; stop asking him too many questions; stop stressing your-self. Most male cheaters know how to cover their tracks well so if he knows you’re suspecting him, there’s a high tendency that he will do everything (including blinding you) to ensure you don’t find out. So the sooner you stop stressing yourself, the easier it is to know whether or not he is cheating on you.
BE DISCERNING: To discern is to perceive, recognize or comprehend with the mind. In this case, to discern is to carefully observe your relationship, the initial and current disposition of your partner to issues regarding the relationship. Let’s look at this from two (2) angles:
Angle 1: He used to be really concerned about you and now he doesn’t care; he forgets everything you say to him; he treats your issues with reckless abandon unlike before when you when his number one priority; everything about him shows that he’s no longer interested in you or he has someone buttering his bread.
Angle 2: He has become overly and suspiciously nice to you; he does things he didn’t used to do just in a bid to cover his tracks and take away your curiosity;
BE PRAYERFUL: Some guys are just too good at cheating and trying to catch them will be as difficult as passing a camel through the eye of a needle. You need some extra effort for such guys especially when you walked into the relationship without the consent of a higher authority. You need to be prayerful and that’s the plain truth. With prayer, you get to see him for who he really is.
Please feel free to share your opinions and comments. My next post is going to be looking at “How to get over a cheating boyfriend” so please stay tuned to www.musteredlady.com
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