WHY HE LEFT YOU – Without Giving A Reason
I was on a visit to my friend’s house when I heard of a muffled voice. It sounded like someone was crying and so I decided to knock gently on the door. After receiving no response, I forced the door open and met my friend crying with tissue paper and torn pictures of her boyfriend all over. Perplexed, I ran towards her and gave her a big hug whispering “what happened?” It was then she began to narrate how her boyfriend had just dumped her without any apologies.
These were her words “He didn’t even say why he was leaving, he just left”.
That got me thinking and the product of my thoughts is what you’re about to read. Every day, millions of young ladies across the world are left heart-broken simply because a guy they care about walked out on them; it becomes paramount to know what often results in this. Why did he did walk away? Read on and find out more.
INSECURITY: Insecurity in the “relationship dictionary” can simply be defined as the fear of losing someone you care about because you feel you’re not good enough for them or because you think they deserve better than you. A guy will shamefully walk out of a relationship because of “insecurity”. He is so afraid that he might lose you and doesn’t want to get hurt first so he leaves without any tangible explanation. He left you because he felt insecure about the relationship and you probably didn’t help matters by talking about the “new” guy you met at the mall.
HE’S CHOKED: Do you know that you can choke a guy with bad mannerisms, unpleasant attitudes, incessant quarrels and unending arguments? Yes you can! And so many ladies do this knowingly or unknowingly. Just because he’s being all pleasant and loving doesn’t mean you should take his love for granted by becoming a “wild bitch”. No matter how much a guy loves you, he has a limit and if you cross the borders, don’t be surprised when you end up alone. If you choke him, he will leave you without thinking twice.
HE NEVER REALLY LOVED YOU: This is the sad but painful truth. A guy that truly cares about you will never walk away come what may. He will stay by your side, sort out your differences and work things out no matter how difficult they seem…he will never walk away. If a guy walks away, he never really cared. He walked away because he had been playing “pretend” with you; he walked away because he has gotten what he wanted from you; he walked away because he never really loved you.
WHY HE LEFT YOU - Mustered Lady Relationship
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