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THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Time, experience and knowledge has taught me some basic things that can destroy a relationship. These things are often consider little and sometimes irrelevant but they have the power to bring down a relationship in which you have invested years. We’ll be looking at three (3) things that can turn a perfectly loving and peaceful relationship into “hell”. These things must be avoided otherwise they create dents which can never be sealed in a relationship.

THINGS YOU MUST NEVER DO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP – You Must Never Cheat, You Must Never Lie

You must never “cheat”: This is the obvious truth. If you want to enjoy your relationship, you must stay away from cheating on your partner. Cheating has a way of making you uncomfortable in any relationship…you’re forced to lie most times, you are forced to do things you’ll forever regret and what’s worse, when your partner finds out, you’ll have a lot of explanation to give. Beyond this, cheating ruins trust in a relationship, it distances the partners and creates room for revenge, hatred and vices that you don’t want to have anything to do with.

You must never “lie”: Lying and cheating are like twin sisters from the same mother. Lying often follows cheating in most cases and even outside cheating, lying creates rife in the future of a relationship. There is a famous saying that “The truth always prevails”. No matter how well you lie, there’s a very high tendency that the truth will show up one day and that day could mark an end to peace in a relationship. Just like cheating, lying ruins trust in a relationship and in the long term, lying destroys a relationship.

You must never “compare”: Nobody likes to be compared with others; everyone likes to bask in the euphoria of what makes them special and very unique. Comparing your partner is like giving them a painful slap. It is an insult on their ego, esteem and personality. If you want your relationship to grow and not end in a messy divorce after marriage, you must learn to appreciate the wonderful qualities in your partner and STOP comparing them to others.

Yours truly,

Tope.

 

 

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