Every man wants to settle down with a lady that completes and complements them. They want a lady that won’t just take from them but also add value to them. They want a virtuous woman who will make their lives beautiful and make them happy.
Unfortunately, a lot of ladies don’t know this. Many are blinded by the ultimate desire for a man that will buy them expensive accessories and fly them across the seven seas; they want men who would be their financial guarantor; they want men who would give Lamborghinis as birthday gifts and houses for wedding anniversaries. Even though they find this kind of men, they never find happiness, true love and comfort of the mind. Beyond this, they can play a fulfilling role in his life either as a girl-friend, a wife or a mother.
Today, I want to share with you; your role in his life as a woman.
TO BE A HELP-MEET: Have you ever heard of the story of Adam and Eve? It tells a fantastic tale of how God brought Eve into the life of Adam because He felt that Adam needed a “help-meet”. A help-meet can simply be described as a helper. In other words, a “help-meet” is someone that suits, adapts to and complements another person. God has put you in his life so that you can help him to be better; help him to succeed; help him to achieve goals and his purpose in life. If you’re not doing this then you are failing in your role in his life as a woman.
TO SUPPORT HIM: You’re not in his life to be a burden to him and his career; you’re there to support him with what God has blessed you with. Don’t nag when things are not going as planned; don’t complain when he can’t provide you with everything you desire and deserve; don’t leave him just because everyone is walking out. Stay with him and support him. As the lady in his life, your role is to support and complement him; to keep him from falling to the ground; to be highly involved in ensuring that he succeeds by all means.
TO LOVE HIM: The word love has beeen abused over and over again because a lot of people tend to use it even when they don’t mean it. If you want to know the true definition of love as well as whether or not your “love” complies with this definition, simply read and understand 1 Cor 13: 1-13. To love someone is to have a deep and intense feeling of affection and care towards them regardless of circumstances. As his lady, you are expected to love him. Even when he doesn’t deserve it, you are to love him; even when you don’t feel like it, you are to care for him; even when he hurts you; you are to repay him with kindness.
If you helping, supporting and loving him then you’re not playing your role in his life as you ought to.
YOUR ROLE IN HIS LIFE AS A WOMAN - Mustered Lady Relationship
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