HOW TO GET OVER A CHEATING GIRLFRIEND
From the perspective of a guy, a cheating girlfriend is often like an insult on one’s ego and that makes it even more difficult to get over the situation. However, it really doesn’t matter how “insulted” or “disappointed” you felt when you found out that the person you genuinely cared about, didn’t feel the same way; what matters is that you are willing to move on and enjoy the very best of life.
Today, I’ll be showing you ways by which you can get over a cheating girlfriend.
UTILIZE SOLITUDE POSITIVELY: Finding out that your babe was cheating on you inflicts a pain that is very difficult to bear. More often than not, you will be tempted to tell your male friends, who will probably insult her, tell you to leave her, hook you up with other girls or even plan to attack the guy your babe cheated on you with. At this point, I must stress the importance of withdrawing from the above and taking advantage of solitude positively. Go somewhere where you can be alone and talk to God about it. Tell him how you feel and ask for the grace to heal, forgive the ones who hurt you and move on. It’s okay to cry and let it all out as long as it makes you feel better.
FORGIVE HER: This is quite difficult but then if you want to get over a cheating girlfriend, you must forgive her. Don’t make any plans to revenge by hurting her or planning for her downfall. Don’t try to heal by getting a substitute which is commonly known as a “rebound”. By forgiving her, you are taking away from her the power to hurt you and surrendering to God for total control over the situation. If you don’t forgive her, you will never get over her.
MOVE ON: Dude, it’s about time you wipe those tears and look ahead. It’s time to “move-on”. Quite frankly, you shouldn’t be wasting too much time mourning over someone who obviously isn’t part of your future so please, “Stop crying over split milk” and start thinking of how to become a better person for the right one. Remember, if you don’t let go of the past, you will pass away with the past. So take a chill pill, learn the lessons that need to be learnt and move on to enjoy God’s best for your life.
HOW TO GET OVER A CHEATING GIRLFRIEND - Mustered Lady Relationship
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