BE NOT PRESSURIZED INTO GETTING MARRIED
NB: This post is not to discourage marriage, but rather it is to help singles prepare before venturing into marriage.
These days, it’s becoming more disturbing the rate at which people get married. As much as I celebrate their happiness and the joy of being married to someone they love, I am forced to consider the budding pressure on ladies whose “biological clocks” are ticking or even worse; their parents can’t stop babbling about “when they will get married”.
For these cogent reasons, I have written this post. Just because all your friends are getting married doesn’t mean that marriage should be the next thing on your agenda. Just because you check Facebook and you see a new wedding notifications doesn’t mean that you are getting too old. Marriage is not a party that you walk into and walk out of when things start getting boring or uninteresting. It’s a life-time commitment that should be carefully thought of before you venture into it.
Today, I’m going to be giving you reasons why you shouldn’t be pressurized into getting married:
THE LIFE-TIME COMMITMENT: As earlier stated, marriage is forever and if you’re not ready to be with someone for the rest of your life then you shouldn’t even consider marriage. It’s better to take your time in deciding who you want to marry than go on a journey of no return with someone whom you aren’t sure of.
THE BLESSEDNESS OF SINGLENESS: Marriage is not easy and the sooner you understand this, the better for you. It takes a lot of hard-work, commitment and understanding to get and stay married. Unfortunately, not many people understand this. Whilst you’re patiently waiting and praying for the right one, you should maximize your singleness in the best manner possible. Develop yourself, harness your talent and potential, have fun with friends, maximize the blessedness of singleness which disappears once you’re married.
MORE TIME TO PREPARE: Another reason you shouldn’t allow yourself to get pressurized into marriage is that you can have enough time to prepare for your marital destiny. While waiting for the one, you’re reading books on marriage, becoming the best spouse and bringing up children that will change the world positively. The time between when you are single and when you get married shouldn’t be spent in a hurry to get married but invested in preparation for your glorious future.
BE NOT PRESSURIZED INTO GETTING MARRIED - Mustered Lady Relationship
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